Fear Based Decsions

When we make decisions based in fear, we get fear based results.

How often have you stopped moving forward on something because you thought of all that you could lose?

How often have you said no, because of those what if’s floating in your head?

Our brains job is to protect us – we know this.

And this is how it keeps us safe – it reminds us of all the ways it could go wrong, of all the possibilities that are sure to cause us pain.

It doesn’t want us to try something new and unknown. Scary.

It wants us to be aware of what we stand to lose if we go all in and don’t get the result that we want to see.

But what if we changed these questions of how it might not work, to what if it does work?

What if we began to look at life with what we stand to gain by trying something new?

What would change if we began making decisions based in possibility instead?

What if we asked ourselves What would I do if I knew I could not fail?

This doesn’t mean that we won’t ever fail, or that we shouldn’t fail.

This means that we are going all in on what that voice in our head is telling us.

It means that we are finally beginning to listen to what we truly want, instead of what we think we should want. The life that we think we should have.

We are able to make friends with failure, to accept that it’s a part of this process.

We are able to allow ourselves to feel disappointed when something doesn’t work out the way we wanted it to, because we know that disappointment is simply a feeling. One that comes and then goes. One that isn’t something to be afraid of, and one that doesn’t cause us any harm.

This is what coaching is all about. The skills, the tools, the mindset shift that you gain when working with me is invaluable.

It is something that you will never forget, that can never be taken from you.

You learn to apply this work in one area of your life, and then apply these same concepts to each and every area of your life.

You begin to accept life as it really is.

You begin to see and accept – with understanding – your part in everything.

You begin to let go of blame and pity – that you’ve had for yourself and those around you.

You see that anger isn’t a problem, because it’s just an emotion. One that can be felt and not reacted in.

You see that love is always a choice, and that the more you choose to give yourself, the more you also have to give others.

There is no losing here, there is only winning.

For yourself.

For your husband. Your kids.

For every single person you come into contact with.

This is something that will serve you now, and for the rest of your life.

It’s time to listen to those fears, to accept that they’re there, and to tell them to get in the backseat.

They’re coming along for the ride, but they’re no longer running your life.

Your time is now – this is exactly what you’ve been looking for.