Beneath It Is Fear

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I get questions about how much it costs to work with me, but one of the reasons that I don’t have my prices listed is because it’s rarely about the money.

Our brains just like to use that as a reason to say no to something that we know will help us.

How often have I looked at a coach’s website and thought, This is exactly what I need ?

Then I get to the price, and I think I couldn’t pay that much.

No matter what the price is, that’s my brains first response.

But what is behind the hesitation to invest money into whatever problem it is that we want to solve?

It’s a fear that it won’t work.

We all have this fear that it works for others, but that we’re broken somehow and it won’t work for us.

That we will put time and money into it, and we will find ourselves exactly where we are right now.

Minus the cash that would’ve been better spent on food, on the kids, on our home.

We want to know if the cost risk is low enough that if it didn’t work, we wouldn’t be hurting too much.

That our husband wouldn’t be too mad at us over the amount.

This is simply a lack of belief in ourselves.

A lack of belief that we can heal, that we can change, that we can actually do what it is that we say we want to do.

It’s easier to say that our husband doesn’t want us to, or that we don’t have the money, or that our life won’t change that much anyway (because life isn’t perfect, right?)

But when we can get beneath those reasons to the root cause, that’s where we find the gold.

That’s where we see what we’re really working with.

What is really stopping us from getting where we want to be.

Because all that is in the way of where you are now and where you want to be, is your thoughts.

That’s it.

And when we can see the truth in that, and take responsibility for it instead of blaming and shaming, that’s when we can get to work.

Are you ready to see what’s truly holding you back?

That’s what we cover in the free call that I offer.

We go over what you’re struggling with now.

We dream about where you want to be (this is the fun part – where you let go of all ties on reality and just dream. When’s the last time you did that?)

Then we figure out what your next best step is to getting there – whether it’s working with me or if there’s something else that you need to focus on first.

You leave this call being clear on where you are and where you want to be. You will know what the actual problem is to work on, rather than what you think is the problem.

You will have your next steps in place. Those steps that will take you where you want to be.

Ready?

Let’s get started.